Both M. and N. are resting in their rooms tonight after a VERY long day. N. came out first, and she was already quite awake when we first saw her. She was a little pale and her face was a little puffy, but the epidural is locally effective, so she was acting like herself rather quickly. In a few hours, she had more color in her face and she started to have more energy and pitch in her voice. So, all things considered, she is doing quite well.
M. is also doing well. He came out later than N., and he was a bit more groggy at first. He has a lot of morphine (I checked, but he said he wasn't 'flying too high' yet) and was still under the influence of the anesthesia when we first saw him in the recovery room. It was a little scary that he was so much more out-of-it, but his color was really good and they said he was doing well. In fact, they said he was already asking where his jello was.
Unfortunately, he had to stay in recovery for 6 hours because his room wasn't ready, but that turned into a blessing later on when he landed the VIP suite! He has 2 huge windows with amazing views of the city, a couch, two fancy armchairs, and mahogany walls. The nurse said that's where Bill Cosby would stay, or where the (locally) famous
Rabbi/Reverend kidney transplant stayed last December. Not bad!
After we saw M., we ventured out to have dinner. It felt great to leave the sterile, over-air-conditioned hospital rooms and eat out on an outdoor patio. We didn't know where to go, but we found a visitors map on the Penn campus and I led everyone around a few blocks to find a row of restaurants that is nearby. Eventually we found them, and we ended up at
The White Dog Cafe, a place that my mom recognized because it is her boss's favorite restaurant in Philadelphia. They serve delicious food with a socially conscious approach (and a really fantastic waitress who served us).
It was named after
Madame Helena P. Blavatsky, a woman who founded the
Theosophical Society. She almost lost her leg to infection, but it healed unexpectedly. She had her white dog sleep across her leg every night. Here's a quote from her on their website:
Behold the truth before you: A clean life, an open mind, a pure heart, an eager intellect, an unveiled spiritual perception, a brotherliness for one's co-disciple, a readiness to give and receive advice and instruction, a courageous endurance of personal injustice, a brave declaration of principles, a valiant defense of those who are unjustly attacked, and a constant eye to the ideal of human progression and perfection - these are the golden stairs up the steps of which the learner may climb to the temple of divine wisdom.
It seems quite amazing, that of all restaurants in the vicinity of the hospital, we'd end up there on this particular day. The food was also amazing.
We wandered back to the hospital. The surgeon who worked on M. came in later (he was still there at 9 pm, the third time he checked in) to check on him, and he said that his new kidney was already producing a lot of urine--far more than they usually see. That's a great sign. He spent a long while answering our questions and said it is a tremendous thing for N. to do for M. because of the alternative (the waiting list, and a cadaver kidney that doesn't last as long).
So far, we have been really lucky to have a great surgical team and some good nurses as well. My aunt has also been doing all that she can with her
Jin Shin Jyutsu to work on them as soon as she was permitted to. And, as one of my other Aunt's said, over a thousand people were praying and thinking of us--and I think that's quite accurate. All of these are blessings, and we're all feeling very supported, very relieved, and very tired. Back tomorrow...